The sweet jar spell is one that I personally find adorable. It has very little impact on the receiver of the cast spell. It is merely used to “sweeten” someone’s disposition toward you. One of our witches was in an argument with another friend of ours, she used the jar to make him think kindly of her until they could work out their differences of opinion. Before that time, he was one of those who would get angry and just not speak to the person at whom his anger was directed. Because of the jar, he remained in contact with her and they successfully worked out the problem they were having at the time and are still the best of friends 15 years later.
I have used it several times. The most amusing time was on a new manager at work who had a personality conflict with me. She had recently been transferred into our office. I had no problem with her before she began attacking me but suddenly, she was actively targeting me, trying to find a valid reason to fire me that HR would agree with. I discovered that she did not like me at all because I was a witch and she thought I would cast evil spells on her. Yes, she was one of those “very religious” types and not in the good way. Funny thing was, I did not even know anything about her before this and never would have cast a sweet spell against her, much less followed up has she not made it necessary by her actions.
A sweet spell does not completely change the person’s opinion of you but it does let them see that you are not all bad. It is used only to sweeten their opinion of you. It can be used anywhere as it travels well if you are careful. You can keep it at home, in your car or even in a large purse at work if necessary. Just be careful not to break the jar or you will have a very real mess, literally!
You need a jar that is the length of your hand, a “Popsicle” type stick, honey, sugar (brown or white, does not matter) and something to write with, either pen or pencil with no eraser. I use a pen because I feel that the writing implement needs to show your intent is permanent.
On one side of the stick write your full name, on the other side write the full name of the recipient of the spell. Put it in the jar. Add honey to fill close to half of the jar, use sugar to fill the jar almost to the top. Leave an inch or so at the top to add water. Once these items have been added, close the jar tightly and it is ready to use.
Any time you think it is necessary to use the bottle. Visualize the other person, shake the jar gently so that the liquid flows from top to bottom. Allow the contents to flow over the stick inside as you chant three, five, seven, or nine times:
As I shake, sweet thoughts of me
You will now think, constantly.
In your mind my sweetness see,
As I will so mote it be.
Focus on the fact that as you are shaking your “sweet jar” the other person suddenly experiences “sweet” or pleasant thoughts about you, even if that is not their normal feeling toward you.
This has worked very well for our people, so feel free to try it on someone who is normally hateful or behaves in a rude or mean manner toward you. Give it a shake for a few days and see the change it can make when they realize that you are not a fate worse than death, or a spiteful witch in need of firing.